Thursday, December 13, 2018

Dear friend


I heard about you in the news today. I felt sad for you. I never knew. We put these masks every day, like everything is ok. We don’t talk about it, we just smile and say everything is well. We lie, you know?

I am sorry for your pain. The sadness that you must hold on your heart. To be hurt by the one you love. The one that give you the first flower, the one that put joy in your heart with that first kiss of the youth, when you believe in a bed of roses and the charming prince. Girl, that prince does not exist.

I know you thought he could change. Nobody changes, unless they make a huge effort. But we cannot change anyone. We barely can change ourselves. I know you wanted a dad for your kids. That bind so many into a bad relationship. To keep the appearances. To keep the family together…oh girl, those kids you wanted to protect were there today, they went through the worse pain I child can see…they have been there every time he put his hands on you…they have seen your face with black spots, they probably heard the yelling’s, the name callings…they probably lived in fear everyday…

Sometimes is better to walk away. To swallow your pride and look for help. To take the mask out and say I am not ok, things are not well. I live in fear. I am in pain. Look for a helpful hand. Take your kids and run away. I wish you have done that, but you did not. So we are all praying for you, we hope you make it through.

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